A frequently asked question is: "Why do so few people succeed when there is so much opportunity in the world?" The simple answer is that some of your closest friends and relatives love you too much. It seems like a crazy statement right? So on the logic and wisdom that has gone into them, read to explore.
Why not through the examination of love and friendship?
If you someone you love them from all problems and obstacles to protect that life throws up from time to time. YouWant to place a protective barrier around them so that they are subject only to the good things and are far removed from risk or exposure. That is a fact, and if you do not express love in this way, perhaps you should take a look at your relationship.
It is very similar to friendship that we want to protect our friends from someone or something that can be a danger to them. This is a natural reaction that we all feel, otherwise there is no such thing as friendship and the world wouldwould be poorer, less happy place.
But you close your opinion on the fact that you are big enough to face the problems that can bring life to protect and you can not be successful if you do not overcome, problems.
Here are some examples that explain this phenomenon: Just watch a mother protecting her child: You do not want him to take up boxing because he may be injured. If they feel unjustly treated in school, she takes the matter with the teacher or the school principle.If she feels to do something that may bother him if it goes wrong, they immediately begin to control him about it. If that fails, they use makes a damn good excuse for him, if they fail in the future. She makes a soft landing for him.
Before we examine the impact of the natural mother's behavior let's take a look at friendship and friends to protect, like any other.
A young man is slightly drunk and come to a house, ladies and tries to let them talk you into itmakes off a polite excuse and sends him. As soon as he can thinks he remembers going to the next, and they can show that it well with one of her friends. The first thing she does is warn her friend by phone to tell them that they can get a call from this drunken friend.
It does so because they were not a very good friend if they do not, or so she thinks. Even police investigations are often protected by friends to each other when they do not know the reasons hinderedfor the investigation. It is natural for friends to each other so as to protect it for a mother to her child a natural support. But, and this is a big question: Do you help or hurt your friend take care of your senses?
People you are close to actually hold back by feeding negative comments for you to protect the interests of you. Part 2 of this article examines how you react that protection.
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