If you're in love, and you are afraid to reveal your feelings, there is a big chance that you can be aggressive with the person you love just because you are afraid to reveal your weakness.
As a result, you will be with them too cold and you do not help them in any way. Their behavior with them is not normal. If they are a different person, you would not be so rude. In fact, you will notimpolite to, but kind and gentle.
But since you are trying to hide your weakness before that special someone, you are an iceberg with them indifferent to their problems and pain. Help them never, never show no understanding.
They are always afraid that they can interpret a kindness as a sign of weakness and conclude that you are dying of love. They are afraid that it will destroy you completely if they say they do not want you.
Because youso much fear, you are never kind and helpful as you communicate with them if it were not so special for you. Due to the fear, you hurt them. They are aggressive, insensitive, distant, and selfish, in other words, the perfect monster. Of course you can not inspire love ...
How romantic! Instead of smiling and friendly to be, you are rude, cruel and absurd.
Perhaps you imagine that "when you finally are together, you can use to him or her the picture would be completely forgotten. Youimagine that "they understand your weaknesses" and excuse for your cruelty.
You can even try to test their reactions and to provoke them with a lot of painful experiences, to see whether they are willing to leave you, or if they find another country to flirt. If and if and when, until you are sure you can see around them in the most secret feelings in the world, the love you feel for them.
But they are not considering the possibility that you should move from consideringStarting time: Maybe they will not wait for the other, nicer side of your personality when he is, how cold and immature to see you.
Of course, you also need to realize that it can understand a few intelligent people in this world, the meaning of human reactions and who will discover your secret, just because you are not aggressive but kind and gentle, as you would if you were not trying, your to hide feelings.
My advice is: if you can not be normal, donormal with intent. There are many normal things in a very normal way, even though you might feel terrible because you think that you should not be that way with specific people, for it is obvious that they are going to understand that you love and desperate that they kill with their rejection.
Assuming that they are not that particular person, but someone else does not matter.
This is the only way to neurosis, which is sure to dominate, if you insist, preventcruel and far away, just because you hide your feelings from the person you love.
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